Being an adult is hard enough (I would give my whole collection of handbags if I could go back to being 10 for a weekend!), and when you add being in charge of small humans to the mix, life can easily begin to feel out of control.
Before you know it, you’re “Cindy’s mom” instead of Michelle, and your biggest accomplishment at the end of the day is that you managed to find that yellow triangle puzzle piece that disappeared last month. Your days blur together, and someone is always making you feel like you’re not doing enough. As a mom, as a woman, as a human, as a partner.
Because so many of us have lived a million lives before becoming moms, we bring into motherhood a whole mess of history that can seriously hold us back from becoming the strong, joy-filled, confident moms we want to be.
At the end of the day, we all want to be great moms. We want to be freakin’ happy and have happy kids, and a happy partner, and a playroom that doesn’t look like a war zone.
Whatever is holding you back from living the life you want to live, I’m here to help. To tear down your walls, build up your confidence, show you that you have so much to be proud of, and so many opportunities to grow into that life you’ve been longing for. The only person standing in your way is you, darling. True story.
We’ll meet once a month and chat via video call for an hour (if you need to touch base “in person” more than once a month, we can do that!). We’ll dig deep to pinpoint your biggest struggles and from there we’ll make actionable plans to get you to shed the negative thoughts and hurt that is holding you back. We’ll turn you into the most organized person on your block. We’ll laugh, and cry, and move mountains.
You’ll also score unlimited email support, and I’ve got lots of workbooks and worksheets that will help you along the way.
The best part (ok, not the BEST part but a fab perk)? Your kids can totally be playing in the background (or whining in your lap). I’m a mom, I get it. Time is precious, and those little humans just love us SOOOOOOO much that sometimes they can’t stand to leave our sides for .3 seconds. Babies, toddlers, tweens, college kids, whatever. Bring ’em on. Can’t mess with my focus!
It won’t be easy. You’ll have to learn to be comfortable being uncomfortable because you will have to face some icky feelings. You know, the ones you usually eat, or numb with Netflix, or push down so very far you can almost forget they exist.
No more hiding. No more meh days. No more distracted mom. No more hurt, anger, mom guilt, or overwhelm.
Your family life will improve. People will notice the changes in you. Your kids will be happier. Most importantly, you wil FEEL the changes.
It almost sounds too good to be true, but it isn’t. We can get there together.
A year from now, you’ll wish you started today.
Ok, so maybe we won’t be able to chat over wine (unless you’re in the Chicago area, in which case we can totally make that happen!), but it will feel like a productive, inspiring chat with a friend. It’s a judgment-free zone and everything we talk about is confidential.
Here’s the fast facts about what making me your mama mentor will look like:
$56 per month
Minimum three-month commitment
12 call package discount ($45 per month)
Automatic payments using PayPal or credit/debit card
Earn free calls through client referral program
One monthly, one-hour video call
Weekly chair time to complete assignments
The more time you set aside to work on yourself, the better! You're steering the boat here.
If you need more than one call a month, I've got you, boo! We can always plan to talk more, or if you need a spur of the moment call, I'll be there for you (we're meant to be if you just sang the Friends theme song in your head).
An Open Mind- If you're not willing to change, you won't, and I can't help you.
Commitment to Yourself- This isn't about me, you're letting YOURSELF down if you aren't engaged.
Grace- The journey will be hard sometimes, and in those moments you'll need to give yourself oodles of grace.
Reasonable Understanding- This isn't a fast fix, it will take time. You may falter sometimes. But I won't let you fall, and you WILL be successful)